Self Development Techniques
Confucius once said “Good people strengthen themselves ceaselessly”. We are meant to lead lives of abundance – an abundance of health, love, happiness, material and spiritual wealth! If we commit to consistent improvement, our enjoyment of life and contribution to others can soar to heights beyond our wildest dreams.
There really is a very strong connection between self development and the heightening of mediumistic and psychic ability. The more we focus on self improvement, the more we open up to the spirit world and operate at a higher level of vibration. Commit to self development and reap the benefits in all areas of your life: spiritual, professional and personal!
Here are some golden rules for self development and contact with spirit:
Never stop learning! Learn about yourself, others, life and spirit. Read books, watch documentaries, listen to audio and meet with fascinating people who give you new ideas and avenues for growth.
Take care of yourself! We spend so much time doubting, disliking and limiting ourselves. Convert this energy to care for yourself as if you were the most precious commodity in existence. Exercise, learn about nutrition and eat well. Surround yourself with loving and supportive people. Eliminate all negativity and obstacles from your life.
Master your mind! Your world is literally created by your thoughts which shoot out into the universe as the seeds of the fruit that you sow. So think positive! See the good in everyone and everything. Set your sights high and never doubt your ability to have, do and be everything that you desire.
Think ahead! Identify what you want, visualise it and take steps to make it happen. Life is happening right now!
Do what makes you happy! This is a really simple concept: doing what you dislike makes you miserable; doing what you love makes you joyous! Got it?
Don’t be a martyr! Take responsibility! Everything in your life, yes everything, you created! The good, the bad and the ugly! So take responsibility for all elements of your life and make the necessary changes. If you dislike something, change it! If you dislike coffee, would you go out of your way to drink it? If you dislike where you live, move somewhere you love! If someone is making you unhappy, identify what you need to learn and transform the relationship. If you get no cooperation, move on! If you hate your job, get out! Write a list of what you want (no limits), take responsibility for yourself and everything in your life and make it happen!
Truly discover yourself! Identify your greatest strengths and focus on them – I recommend that you check out www.strengthsfinder.com. You can improve your performance, your happiness, health and wealth a billion fold!
Be kind to yourself! If you made a mistake or didn’t quite reach a target, so what? There is not even such a thing as death, so whatever it was that got you down, get over it!
Give your energy to life and other people! The more you love, the more you will be loved. The more you help others, the more people will help you. If you want something, help others to get it! The Universe will bring it to you as a matter of course.
Tune in! There is no need to be in awe of mediums and psychics because we all have these abilities. Everything that you need is within you – it was the best place to hide it!
Listen! If you want guidance from spirit or if you want contact with loved ones no longer in physical form, be in silence and listen within your heart. If you have doubts, experiment! Ask for some information or evidence – I promise that it will come!
Truly look at others with the eyes of God! So many of us think of God as some great being who sits in judgement. We are part of God, so view yourself and all others with compassion!